I re-started. From zero.

#blogpost01 #day18/19

Second day of the year. Happy New Year all. From me and the Moving Tribe art.

Now it is the Thursday and I still haven't put this up. Still worrying. So I am simply putting it up on my blog.

Read. Don't read. Your little invite. From me and my #broken brain.

Right - back to my blog again. The more days I don’t try to do the blog the more days I will stop doing it. At all. Again. Fight + flight.

Just after Christmas my brain was in the ‘oh dear Sandhy; you are SO slow, SO stupid, stand behind the rest as you are so VERY unpleasant when you manage to speak dear… you MUST be fine! 8 years…gosh’ etc. etc. etc.

Rage. Distress. Sadness. Learning still.

The brain is here. The mind is down in the Arctic Wastelands. Cursing. It’s so astounding that even now, after 8 years, my brain still moves forward. Leaving the mind behind…invisible.

The new [almost] piece of information that has appeared into my head - remember Victor Frankenstein's creation? If I did not have all the back notes of my Other Life, I would literally think that the image with the story is simply…me.

I am: “assembled from old body parts and strange chemicals, animated by a mysterious spark” - “I then [he enters] entered life as a total zero [eight feet tall] and enormously strong but with the mind of a new-born.” The monster is Victor Frankenstein's creation. I re-started. From zero.

Christmas was really lovely. In some ways. My vision of it this year broke down. But - we managed. Bit by bit; little by little.

We had Mumsy down. I struggle to constantly chat + understand conversations. I worry about things that many do not worry about at all. That is more than my remit. So I am so grateful for the FH. Helping me to look 'normal'

We got together with friends and gave gifts. We had the best Christmas lunch when we gathered together with the Moving Tribe down at the Headway room.

The weather is horrendous. That word - depression. But hey.

In the meantime I have started using Laura Croft again! My favourite favourite FAVOURITE game on the pc. And I was doing SO well! Logical. But [as per] it has simply started to keep not working. Just stopping. Full stop. Grr.

to bumble on...

Chaotic moments:

First Direct - 1993 to now

Initial understanding by the bank regarding brain injury after effect’s. Good method of trying to find a way. Calmed my extreme rage / heart banging / brain injury / banging noise on the phone / waiting

But. The FH managed. But this time it was so bad.

The rage. When I cannot follow. Beyond help for a long time.

But we did it. Once again. A new Secure Key. Done. Phew.

Extreme head hurting with the New Spectacles

Extremely thick prescription glasses. Why? Because they didn’t ask, and didn’t check how a brain injury creates extreme pain in my broken head - they made my new glasses so heavy.

Back the Specsavers again this week.

I get so tired of everything going wrong. Over and over and over.

Collecting water 24/7 from under the kitchen sink!

Over a month waiting for a plumber to take the time to stop me & the FH from crawling underneath our sink. Twice a day. I found a bigger 'under-the-sink' bucket. Hoorah. F#@k sakes.

Arthritis is just SUCH fun 🤩

Plumbers are almost like god. Except they get paid.

Adding 5 pounds in 2 weeks #slimmingworldrace

It has taken me 2 years to get rid of 2 stone. From 10 stone 7 ounces to get back to 8 stone 7 pounds.

In 3 weeks of eating all the scrumptious food that I love [NO - never, EVER McD 🙀] - roast potatoes + crisps + chocolate 🍫😹 and basically sitting on my butt. Idle mind. Bad.

So a good day to re-begin that astounding diet that to me is the best way to eat. For possibly 25 years. I think I should ask for a badge. Hooray for Slimming World! Bring back my 1999 clobber which lives in my wardrobe - riot in the kitchen 🍎

Wondering wildly about Saturday - there is a little info on LinkedIn to say ‘have a coffee and do some colouring’. At the XCentre. With Headway Devon.

So if you can’t read if you can’t understand are you supposed to just KNOW know that you are invited? That the coffee morning is there for you? The Incredible Human who battles with brain injury EVERY SINGLE DAY

I think I best stop.

Titanium plates

A question for people who *wish to understand about titanium plates* that we people have it smashed into our skulls whilst not understanding anything about the after effects🤔

Is my titanium mesh:

A: Alpha alloys

B: Beta alloys

or

C: Alpha+beta alloys

Trying to understand [by trying to read ho ho] the information about a piece of metal in my skull 💀 is extreme. Aphasia is still moving forward, but I still cannot understand well, as I cannot comprehend unless I have help. Help can be like sunshine in winter. Very little.

Having a chat with a doctor is not useful. Simply because I am unusual. 1 in 59 who survives with the effects of my brain bleed / subarachnoid haemorrhage / aneurism [and after 8 years, most people think I am now “fine” - I just love that 😳]. The type of stroke that I had after the craniotomy was minuscule compared to the bleed.

So. The pain in my head during extreme cold appears to be quite extreme. Therefore I am trying to work out the best thing to do. Wearing a woolly hat maybe the only answer but to recall putting that one my head each time? 🧠

Send me a postcard if you have any input about extremities after a Craniotomy in the titanium plate. When the weather is freezing 🥶 

See info that I cannot understand 100%

Happy anniversary Sandhy!

I died on the 19th of May, 2014: I suffered from a subarachnoid haemorrhage in my brain - called the subarachnoid space. The space was filled up with blood.

It was everywhere inside my head. My neck. A lot of blood. For over 15 hours. Dying. Quietly. 7 years ago now.

I had a horrific, unimaginable headache that pushed me into a coma. I never even knew. With those type of headaches, no one remembers them. They are beyond saving sometimes.

But I helped my own survival - I left the building. Waiting for help.

My brain has 6 aneurysms. One [the worse one] of the subarachnoid haemorrhage area was clipped. The other has been bandaged. The others are still sitting in my wonderful head. Fingers crossed. Thank goodness they check it every year.

I have a titanium plate in my head. I hit that head a lot. My mind does not look or see. It waits for the brain to tell it. So - a lot of painful bangs on my poor head. At least I don't cry every time now. I can used the mind a little more. Better than hoping someone will stand in front of me all the time - I would probably be rather violent. I always try my best. Always.

But sometimes? No one understands. And at last, I understand that. I understand that people think I am stupid. Slow. Unattractive - such awful lack of self now…

Anyway. The subarachnoid haemorrhage and the Brain went on causing quick death - so I also had a minimal stroke 4 days later.

Today, on the 19th May 2021, I am still here.

My FH went to work.

Today I spent the day alone.

Because I remember this now. Piece by terrifying piece. It has taken a long time - and it's hard.

But - I am still here. And my FH is too.

So! Happy anniversary to my FH - and: happy anniversary Sandhy! You have survived three times now - once through ovarian cancer. Secondly, having a 4 hour operation after 15 hours lying on the ground in a coma. Waiting. And third was the bloody stroke. Not being able to run. More help in my head…but it did wake me up!

Surviving. 

''The face surrounded by lots of hair. The face without Bells Palsy – the face before all this BS cancer stuff happened – and to think I was complaining then!!

The old face I had was actually rather a nice one actually. Ah vanity vanity...''

           

       

Life post my Brain Injury

Fury

/ˈfjʊəri/

noun

noun: fury; plural noun: furies; noun: Fury; plural noun: Furies

1. 1. 

   wild or violent anger.

   "tears of fury and frustration"

   • extreme strength or violence in an action or a natural phenomenon.
     
2. "the fury of a gathering storm"

   
   
3. 3. 

   GREEK MYTHOLOGY

   a spirit of punishment, often represented as one of three goddesses who pronounced curses on the guilty and inflicted famines and pestilences. The Furies were identified at an early date with the Eumenides.
   

   Phrases

   like fury — with great energy or effort.

   "she fought like fury in his arms"

Adjusting to 'Life post my Brain Injury'. Even now, 6 years later...but at this stage, I am [at last] understanding what life is actually about. 6 years has made a lot of difference in the world. And in people. And in me.

Most of the time, I am trundling along, hoping for the best. Moving forward. Hoping that new people that I meet will become friends. Or neighbours. On just people you can speak too when you are working in you garden and they walk past.

But quite a lot of people are not like that any more.

They are about as interesting as having half your head removed. 

As your brain has been totally battered, then perhaps when you start to recover, as you look for help, in small ways, it doesn't really happen.

Because, surprising [for me] a lot of people are extremely unpleasant.

They are not like animals. They do not understand the pack.

Animals hunt their prey by working together with other members of its species. But humans?

They lie.
They deceive.
They scandal behind your back.
They discard you - like rotten fish.

And - such fun darling! They talk about you as if you will never understand what they have said. Because we struggle to grasp things immediately. We have to ask. We need a bit of patience. But that doesn't happen all the time.

Because you are a ''Stupid'' person in their eyes [but they never say that out loud…] - that is what happens when you have a brain injury. Life changes so much.

Small piece of advice, all you who have a massive brain injury; always hope for the best. But never rely on people unless you know absolutely that you can trust them.

In your life after traumatic brain injury, you have to ask for help.

And some times, others are just too busy. A tad distressful. But hey - onward and upward. Right?

 Traumatic Brain Injury. What? And yes - I am rather a bore about this. 😊

Anyone who would like to know what really happened to all those people you know [or don't know] that had a brain 'injury'.

Perhaps you noticed it on the news - in a film...at the bus stop...you look at people who look all weird. All broken. Friends tell you about 'people they know' that had such an 'awful' time. But they are ok now!

Of course they are. Most of the time the facts are 'invisible'. Sometimes the word 'invisible' changes into 'ignoring'.

A lot of these people struggle. Perhaps they can't speak. Or count. Or grasp a fast conversation mentally; or understand in a moment. Or read. Aphasia is very sutle really, unless you ask. A lot of us can't understand numbers. That really so sucks. Buying things is very chuckalicious. Not.

Or no-one bothers to see if they need a little help because asking for something - even a bus ticket - can be very very HARD!!

You who have never had a massive, traumatic brain injury - have a read sweetie pie. Because you CAN read. Try to get your head around the fact that it could actually happen to you...it's a little bit like having cancer. But harder.

And I can assure you - I speak with complete honesty about that. I have been through both.

I will always have the jolly aphasia.
That I can manage. Now.

I have actually stopped becoming horrendously violent. It has taken nearly 6 years for me to actually understand that shooting people is not allowed…heh heh

The interesting change of everything that happened while I was dying of a massive brain injury...it has been hard. But - onward and upward. Forever.

Saying to any of us who have this forever non stop #brain injury, ''but you look GREAT'' - it is not very useful. [note: polite remark by the Sarcastic Moi, right?]. Right.

We need people to understand that our lives have changed.

We are frightened. We are afraid. 😶
Useless.
We feed so awful. We need help - but it is hard to ask. Especially when people are too busy.

We want to find and see our old friends; our family; neighbours; people that we worked with - that they might suddenly come out with: ''hey - we read an article - now we have a small idea of what really happened! Just tell us what is really happening for you now. Can't we give you a hand?''

But that does not often happen - everyone thinks that either they can't cope with dealing with it, or they pretend that we really MUST seem fine…🤦‍♀️

If you would like to read and interesting article, please have a look here: 
Traumatic Brain Injury

Let me know what you think. Could be interesting for me that's for sure.

P.S.: The MRI scan was great this year, as all the aneurisms I have in my head have stopped moving / growing etc. Big yay!! Loving my surgeon…

03 - 09 02 2021

This is sort of going backward and forward, as I did a really speedy blog this morning, as I was in that 'shriek' mode. Hospital appointments do my head in [always], but this year has been quite bothersome, to say the least! So - hang in there, hopefully I shall find a way to do this in a proper order. Aphasia is extremely irritating. 

So - I AM still attacking my blog! But February is a very difficult month every year. This week I had my bloods taken for my CA 125 check. Even that it is quite frightening.

Last time I had many sticking attacks on both arms…on the fourth one I did get slightly peeved. But the proper phlebotomist arrived and she took my blood samples and it all went well. So last year I had a massive blue bruise all along both arms. Shocking for most, but for all this time, I have sort of got used to it. I always know that it is useful - so the pain doesn't last long! She says…

AND! Bargain - on my right hand side, the feeling is far, far less than on my left hand side. Woop woop! Thanks for one small good thing from having a little stroke.

This year I was so worried [for an entire week] but for some reason I had the most incredible nurse that did my blood. I felt absolutely nothing!

So that was rather an exciting day - off to the local Exmouth hospital, where our doctors work, plus part of the hospital is a Minor Injury Unit. It's completely different to the doctors surgery that I had in Exeter. This is bigger. So I worried about going. Mainly because I have the CA 125 blood test, and [as usual] my blood refuses to be removed.

This time I had the most incredible woman - she did my bloods, I didn't even FEEL it! I told her to note that my blood refuses to be removed. She did it so well that [and I am sounding a bit bonkers here] I didn't actually feel it - at all?? Great.

But - the best thing. For me anyway - she had obviously checked my notes. And apparently she did work in an intensive care unit [ICU]. So she was so incredibly understanding of how I am. It was the very first time that someone really understood what happens when you have a massive brain injury.

Interestingly, [from this super nurse] it can be so much more worse for the friends / relatives when it happens. Because when you have that kind of chaos going on in your head, you aren't there. At all.

Anyway - in the meantime, one of my fingers has a horrendous nail that has been  a sort of abscess underneath the finger nail for about two years [yes - gross. REALLY gross!]. So I asked her about that as well. I was feeling brave!

And she sorted that for me too! Yay! I have CHOPPED off my nail and send it off to the hospital for testing. It takes three months [and it is pretty gross] as they make a biopsy to find out what is living in my finger nail! Yuck. Times ten.

Last Friday was a little bit worse, as I had to go up to the RD&E hospital for my breast mammogram. 10 years I have been doing that, since ovarian cancer blah blah. So popping up there is usually simple, even when your #brain has broken.

Trying to be sensible and do my normal blog isn’t really very clever with my mind and my brain going into distress. Hence this one being in the wrong place in the cue.

And the word distress… well even that isn’t quite what I mean. Distress has got nothing to do with how I feel - it’s more like I think I’m just making a big drama. And other people almost refuse to understand.

That nurse did make me cry. She was so understanding because she has worked in the place where you are when you have a coma i.e. you have a brain injury or, like me, a total nightmare in my head. When I got outside I was crying but it was a good type of crying.

She did she did not lie and she understood.
Which is very unusual.

Now I have been for my breast check [waiting for the letter in the post - 7 to 10 days] and for my CA 125. Which is a serious check because last year the CA 125 had gone up. Happily last year I had three checks and it had gone back down again.

Fingers crossed. And I hope to be a little more constructive with putting this page together here.

Busy week…

This week is a type of week that I think is a ''Learning Curve'' - about a lot of things. Love it. 🔫

Last week: VERY SCARY!! VERY upsetting.
This week: not SO scary today 🦸🏻‍♀️💪🏻

Last week: I had to make my own map; and deal with my own 'curve' [that word is a lovely polite word right?]
This week: I know exactly where the #Oncology department lives...right next the ''Had Lots of Chemo'' department.

Where I am going today I know the right level, the correct section and again, my head in its mask. 🙀😁

After coming in for so many years I do not think twice. They take really good care of me. No matter what. Even going in is not as scary as last Friday. Yay! And the #doctors, #nurses, #everyone - are #kind.

Fingers crossed for good news later💃❤

#aphasia #nhsheroes
#cancercheck #CA125
#threeoffour #hospital
#RD_EWonfordMedicalOncology
#onwardsandupwards
#cancersurvivor
#braininjurysurvivor

''there are so many people like you…''

So - now I am still trying to create my 'blog'. I think. What IS a blog anyway? Maybe what I should actually say is that I want to try to understand what happened to me on the day that I started to die.

At the moment, I have an #aRt project on a Thursday, copying alphabet animals by our wonderful art chap, Stuart. They were originally done by a woman, Casey Gerard. It’s been very interesting for me.

One thing - I have always had an amazing mind set about life. It's MY life - and it cannot be deleted by anyone or anything other than me. Hence - I refuse to die unless I say so. I have such a sense of humour right?

Recently, someone said to me that ''there are so many people like you with this brain 'injury' Sandhy!'. Hmm. Chuckalicious. Injury?

To be fair, if this does not happen to you - you can never really understand what happened to me, as A: we are all different, B: some things are far worse that one can ever understand. Unless they or you have it. And - hopefully - they or you will not.

It is something you cannot study for. You cannot 'imagine' how we feel. So don't be a smart arse and think you know. You don't. You have an idea.

The best - people who try to find out. Find out from you, what actually happened. If you know. I do not know a lot. Yet. But there are a lot of pages [360 pages to be exact] with all the sensible stuff on it. Things written by nurses. Doctors. Surgeons.

We paid £50.00 for a copy a few years back. But I could not read it. Or understand it. I now have a far better comprehension. And I know how to ask.

I would not wish what happened to me upon anyone. No matter what. When I had cancer, the way of dealing with it and communicating across it - talking to others who had the exact same thing…it was something that I could cope with well.

Having a massive operation. Having chemotherapy - meeting people who helped immensely. They tell you almost exactly what is going to happen. If I was worried, concerned - I had a number to call. If  I was lonely - I had friends to call, and they called me. I changed my life - and moved on. I was so pleased - and so happy. We dealt with it - my wonderful FH and me. Family. Some friends.

But to understand what happened to my brain? Well, I have to understand what happened and then I have to try to get YOU to understand. That is not particularly because of me - I am the same as I have always been in some ways [not all the same as I was before - I never used to lose it…] but I have all ways loved to help others.

Living in different countries with completely different types of people - different things that happen because the places give you different path ways. And the incredible people that you meet - they stay with you for always.

But when people tell me that there are ''so MANY people like you Sandhy''? That type of remark would have made me quite violent a few years back. And that is not a little 'be worried' remark. I became quite violent in the hospital. Through no ones fault - my head needed fixing - my brain and my mind. I needed to come back. But it takes so long.

Incredibly, I was Sectioned. Because I was determined to leave, I was kept in the hospital under the Mental Health Act. And I would not take the 'very powerful medication'.

I have always detested taking medication. And in looking back - I am very, very glad I refused. Incredibly, I cannot remember refusing - I could not speak much. I wasn't really 'there' yet. And not being able to speak - it is possibly the worse thing to happen to you in many ways.

Try to spend ONE day without speaking. AT ALL. See how you go. It is incredibly frustrating.

So I image I swore at everyone, and refused. I suppose not being able to say 'no' - makes you so afraid. You cannot make a refusal, if you cannot say 'no'. Ever.

So - a rather large apology for my beautiful hospital people. Honestly? I was not there. But I am now!

But - this is looking forward. This is after the beginning. Tut tut - as per, I am wandering about in my brain, getting ahead of myself.

I had no way to speak up properly and say; ''NO - you have no idea. You are not in my head. You do not ask. You think [this is also a good one…] that I look fine! And amazing!'' - sorry. But that's quite distressing. For weeks.

The one thing I have learned - getting better takes a LONG time. All our lives we rush and run. We hurry.

I have actually learned to look at what I have achieved - and in the last 6 years I've done pretty well. I think.

days ARE interesting

Days are always quite interesting. No matter what you feel like. It always gets better if you hang on. 

I am still sort of trying to start this from the ‘I am dying’ sort of day, but I am still struggling there. So, you’ll just have to hang on for the very exciting bit [which I can’t remember…grr]

And I am possibly cursing without even noticing. But that is simply my own way to try to cope. Although I think I’ve always sworn. 

Shocking. Oh shriek. 

I do chuckle when people wander around pretending that everything is perfect when they speak and what they say.

Fall over laughing, oh yes I do…

Excellent #aRt last week. And sorting the #design for our last room in the wonderful house. 

The aRt was absolutely exhausting. And strangely enough, I don’t get what they say is: “fatigue” after brain injury. I don’t get fatigue. I get something else. Have to explain that another day. I think [for me] that it is more like needing to make more effort and to think in a concentrating way. No ‘looking at the sky’ for 6 seconds and then carry on - if I do that, I wonder where the hell I am for 5 minutes.

Anyway. We were supposed to draw 26 letters [of the alphabet] - we had 3 minutes to work on each one, which we were copying from pictures on the screen from our ‘zoom’ aRt project.

Very hard for me to take it in within three minutes - sometimes I have to listen more than once. My husband listened to it all. It is hard for me to concentrate on something. I need the time to digest what I am trying to understand. If I don’t stop and let my mind work, my brain causes some unpleasant behaviour, which I could not stop in the first 2 years after the brain injury. But, well - now I am not as bad as I was a few years back. Because now I can concentrate. I could NOT concentrate. At all.

Now I hold onto ‘behaving politely’ - instead of telling people to f*ck off, as I need TIME and patience.

Sometimes I try to ‘get it’ - sometimes I get serious pissed off and run away to dig up the garden or cook something with chicken and piri-piri!

And as the FH said, if I had been picked up immediately, I would have also been a lot more likely to have been back to normal quite quickly. Or even remotely! I will never be ‘normal’ again.

I am seriously thinking of working with the e e cummings effect on my blog. Less thinking…

This week, the aRt project, part 2 of 4. I love going - but I still get stressed, as it is… [no, not embarrassing] - it’s a bit undermining. I have a very, very low esteem. It is very hard to understand in my own head that what I am doing is not rubbish. And it doesn’t matter who says how fab something I did is - it is simply mine. Unusual for me to think my work is brilliant.

But I am now back onto the way of what I’ve always done. aRt. And I shall get there.

Planning a cycle in 2021!

Help me to fund raise for Force! 😊🚴‍♂️
https://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/Sandhy_Robinson-Jones2021

A long time ago I had a blog.

I had ovarian cancer, stage 3b in February 2008. Interesting - I though it was the worse possible thing that could have happened to me, other than I died of a nervous breakdown for being so worried about dying of cancer. Or my wonderful FH also having a breakdown too.

If only I knew then what happened since? I would have chuckled all the way through my cancer treatment, the incredible after care that I was given - the way that everything was explained, shown and everyone helped me. With all the kind and beautiful people who dealt with me in the hospital, I felt so empowered. I was going to survive.

At that time, I loved the hospital! And everyone in it too. Because I was still ‘here’.

Then, I could speak in constructive ways. I could make the things that I wanted to tell you into something that helped me to express my feelings and my life and to make sure that it was comprehensible. And I wanted to help other women that had the same thing - ovarian cancer. At that point, no one thought any of us would survive.

But we did.

I had masses of blog friends. Some of which I still have now. A wonderful thing to find friends. A wonderful thing to manage to cope with the cancer. A wonderful thing to be happy even when you are struggling with a horrible disease.

My fab 10-year design job in Europe had to come to an end - to many operations, chemo and rather difficult for a while. Hard to walk after chemo - exhausted and I became quite over weight. And feeling like crap. Walking to the local shop I had to stop half way up the little hill to cope. It made me determined.

This is now a way for me to try to blog again. Determination.

For you - I have aphasia, which is a really frustrating thing for writing, reading, speaking…and for anyone who does NOT have it - no, you cannot EVER understand what it feels like. And I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Ever. A subarachnoid haemorrhage / brain aneurysm and a small stroke 4 days later made me slightly pissed off.

Aphasia is one of those things that happens when you brain gets damaged. In different ways. And everyone is different afterwards.

I am going to push this up while I am trying to find some money for our brilliant Force. I will be [hopefully!] cycling the Nello in June. In the meantime, I am going to try to explain what happened to me in 2014. And to explain that having cancer help me to have a brain injury. A little mad do you think? Hmm.

It could all rather interesting - or it may be a tad boring…if the words are ridiculously pointless [to you] and they are not able to be understood; run away. Do not look back.

Aphasia makes your speech different - if you CAN speak. And the brain gets damaged, which means your entire core changes. Hello friends - the ones that are still here.

If it is even interesting at all, have a read - I shall be trundling out more of my Dramatic Life for the  blog. And for the people who are remotely interested.

Boom boom - see how I go! 💪🦸‍♀️

I could easily say a ‘blue banana’…

Well, the very first new blog [done by a total head case] has been rather interesting. Very few people actually saw it, read it or bothered about it. Pretty cool - I like it that eventually I will remove at least 200 people of the 416 that I have at the moment!

This was a brilliant weekend as I have removed loads of rubbish from my computer. Masses of photos and Living with Aphasia folders. And random other stuff. Boom boom!

Then I went shopping at Debenhams! It’s so wicked to actually be able to order things from the shops again - love it. I hate actually ‘shopping’ in the real world. But putting it onto the credited card is quite exciting! It all arrives at the house - and I don’t have to go shopping in the street - yes!! Another success that’s for sure.

‘As there are stars in the sky, Aphasia attacks you in so many different ways.’ I am being helped by ‘reading’ [reading…hmm] a fellow who is writing a blog for another women who has aphasia. It is helping me to understand how much aphasia actually affects you. It is so much better now that I can actually ‘think’ about what is going on – it’s still pretty irritating, but I think I am noticing that sometimes I should really try to STOP and think.

Thinking is quite difficult if you have to try to ‘understand’ something. So far, it is ‘reread’ the blog. I am starting to not bother? That’s not very useful….so I’ll just stop today. Must talk about my bike next!

#aphasia
#thinkinghard
#hopeIcandothis!